A recent article at Double X Science expressed a fundamental fed-upness with the way the media profiles women in science. The problem is the inordinate focus on things typically considered a womans work however do they balance all that lady stuff and a career?! Gosh. Oh, and heres a little bit about the science.

The author suggests a moratorium on mentioning the scientists sex, and just focusing on the science. Which is a good idea, as far as it goes but were still living in a world where science is seen as a mans profession. Its important that young women who are considering entering STEM fields see that its possible to have a career, a spouse, children, and/or hobbies as well as a career, that they wont have to become single, sexless workaholics to make it in STEM. So, perhaps, a para or so explaining this isnt the 19th century anymore? A mention might be nice, but nothing excessive, and please talk about the science for the majority of the article.

And give male scientists the same treatment.

Man on bicycle balancing propane tank and watermelon on head = odd.

Seriously. Look at the comments at that post. A huge number of people want to hear from men on how they balance their family obligations and personal time with their careers. Women arent the sole caregivers now (right, guys? Right?), and men are starting to try the same juggling act. They need help, support, and encouragement, too. They need to see other men balancing on the tightwire while juggling their obligations.

This gives me the inspiration for a new series, one in which we highlight science men with families and/or complicated personal lives theyre trying to balance. Is that you? Fantastic! Let me know about you.* What are the challenges you face? What works? What doesnt? What do you wish you could change? How can your STEM career be made more life-and-family-friendly?

The ultimate goal is to achieve actual equality for both women and men. No matter your sex or gender, no matter your situation, you should be able to have your family and career, too. Theres no reason why a STEM career should mean giving up the rest of your life.


*dhunterauthor at gmail, for those not already in the know. Or you can just leave a comment using an email address at which I can reach you. Either way works.

Originally published at En Tequila Es Verdad.